Stress overwhelm
    
THE STRUGGLE IS REAL!
      

Overwhelmed, stressed, overworked

     
So many of us are struggling with time management and focus during this pandemic. I know I certainly have my moments and each of my clients have mentioned being effected in various ways as well.
     
IT IS STRESSFUL!
YOU CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT
      
    
Working from home has it’s benefits, but also it’s drawbacks – it’s too easy to always be “on”. Technology is a gift and a curse. 
     
Questions to ask yourself:
    
  • How can I best use my time?
  • What is the best action I can take in this moment, that will provide the most value?
  • Does investing MORE time in my work day really result in MORE effectiveness?
  • What is the cost of not setting boundaries in my work day?
  • Where is the benefit?
    • Is that benefit perceived or real?
  • What am I afraid will happen if I set realistic boundaries?
    • Is that fear real? How do I know?
    • Is it actually F.E.A.R. talking? 
      • Or is it actually
        • False
        • Evidence 
        • Appearing 
        • Real

Get Out of Overwhelm Today!

Time is an precious investment and a limited resource. How you choose to spend it matters. Consider the return on your investment and assign a value to your time.

Get out of overwhelm and take control of your time

        
Five tips to get out of overwhelm and take of control of your schedule:
      
  1. Look at the day ahead and schedule it in blocks. Choose your focus/task for each block.
  2. Prioritize. If you feel overwhelmed by your to-do list, pick a TOP 3. These are the things that MUST get done. Do those first, once you can cross them off your list, you will feel accomplished and so much lighter.
  3. Incorporate planned breaks or at least 5 minutes every hour. SET A TIMER. This can do wonders for your focus and give you a sense of control.
  4. Set a start and a stop time for your work day. Allow time for self-care, things that bring you joy and a good night’s sleep.
  5. Give yourself grace. There will be days where the unexpected throws a wrench in your plan. That’s ok, that’s life. Pat yourself on the back for doing your best and start with Step 1 the next day.
      
What truly brings you joy and fulfillment? Do you want to spend the majority of your time working? Are you leaving enough time for things that bring you joy outside of work? Do you leave time for self care?
      

I would love to hear your thoughts and ideas on how you manage your time and improve your focus. If you are struggling, book a FREE Discovery Call and we can chat about your challenges and discover if Wellness Coaching might be what you need to get unstuck.

     

Barbara is a Nationally Board Certified Health & Wellness Coach. She is passionate about helping clients get unstuck and move beyond their barriers to living the most Healthy & Balanced Life possible. Find out more here.

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Friends After a Workout at Project Fitness in Cary NC
    Barbara Brosnan
NBC-HWC, CPT, CNC

 

Self care is sometimes elusive for moms. Mom guilt is strong. We juggle our families’ needs along with our own and so often we put our families’ wants above our own needs. There doesn’t seem to be enough hours to fit it all in. When I find this happening, I remind myself I am a person and I also matter. Self care isn’t selfish. We can’t pour from an empty cup. When we practice self care, we set ourselves up to better manage stress, strengthen our immune system, build positivity.

 

We need to live healthier lives not just for ourselves but so we can have the physical and emotional energy necessary to best care or and be with our family long into the future. By clarifying needs vs. wants, we can find some time in our day for self care. Schedule your exercise on the calendar in ink just as you would any other important appointment. Wellness is a journey, we need to set goals to keep ourselves accountable and live the healthiest life possible. 

 

I’ve been there with the mom guilt and lack of motivation! I discovered a love for fitness after I had my first of four boys. I had gained over sixty pounds during my pregnancy, because, well, I had the misconception that there would be no lasting effects from eating for two (or more accurately, four!) and that the weight would magically fall off once my son was born. I was so very wrong. I turned toward exercise and nutrition. I fit in exercise while my son napped. I discovered exercise had not just physical benefits but emotional ones as well; I began to incorporate more varied and frequent exercise into my routine. I learned to let go of the mom guilt and take time to keep myself healthy.

 

WHY SHOULD I EXERCISE?

The benefits of exercise are seemingly endless. Exercise is my therapy, it’s my time to unwind, decompress and zone out. Exercise reduces stress, helps combat the symptoms of anxiety and depression, lowers our risk of osteoporosis, arthritis and dementia, improves cognitive function and cardiac health, prevents or lessens the impact of chronic illness such as hypertension, diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and eight types of cancer. It increases our quality of sleep, improves our energy levels, and makes us stronger, which results in less aches and pains. Improving our physical fitness will help us age gracefully, decreasing our rate of injury and helping us continue to comfortably perform activities of daily living.  

 

HOW MUCH EXERCISE DO I NEED?

The current guidelines for physical activity (https://bit.ly/2Dg4zSe) include a recommendation that adults get at least 150-300 minutes of moderate aerobic activity per week as well as strength training twice a week (subscribe to my newsletter for a great 20 min. resistance workout you can do pretty much anywhere). The recommendation for children ages 6-17 is 60 minutes each day, and for the pre-K crowd, it is recommended that they engage in active play throughout the day. Get out there and play some of your favorite childhood games with your kids: 

  • tag
  • red light/green light
  • kick the can
  • ride bikes 
  • hiking

 

(For those of you in NC, Hanging Rock State Park is a great day trip). These experiences will create time to bond as a family while showing your kids that fitness is fun!

 

There are plenty of ways to get yourself going if you need a little motivation. Start small, set goals for yourself that are realistic, no need to go from zero exercise to 300 minutes all in the first week, in fact, that will likely set you up for soreness and leave you feeling overwhelmed. You are the expert of your own life, decide what you are comfortable doing and build from there. 

  • Feel free to join my free Facebook group Project Fitness – The Journey for support from like minded women.
  • Use a workout journal to write your plan the night before, seeing it waiting can help you stay accountable.
  • Make plans with a friend to go to the gym, you won’t want to be a no-show when someone else is waiting for you.
  • Create a kick ass playlist with favorite songs that you only listen to during your workouts, or try some stations from your streaming service, I love Amazon Prime Music and Rock My Run  (free version) is also a fun app that has playlists geared to exercise.
  • When you truly feel you can’t summon the energy to workout, make yourself a promise. You will go for ten minutes. If after ten minutes you still want to stop, you can – no negative self talk, no beating yourself up – however, chances are, once you get going, you’ll have the physical and emotional energy you need to continue.

Healthy Food Choices

Proteins

  • Skinless chicken breast
  • Mahi Mahi
  • Tilapia
  • Salmon
  • Eggs
  • Beans (not a complete source)

Carbohydrates

  • Whole wheat pasta
  • Beans
  • Various fruit
  • Oatmeal (not instant)
  • Brown rice
  • Sweet potatoes
  • Quinoa

Fats

  • Olive oil
  • Avocados
  • Most nuts & seeds

WANT TO LOSE BODY FAT? NUTRITION MATTERS!

Though exercise has many benefits, weight loss is 20% exercise, 80% nutrition. You can’t out exercise a bad diet. If you need to dial in your nutrition, My Fitness Pal or other similar apps can help keep you on track. Log everything! Try to plan ahead and log what you will be eating, especially if you know one meal won’t be as healthy as you’d like. When trying to lose body fat, use a food scale to weigh everything. We tend to underestimate calories when relying on sight. Many vegetables are nutrient dense and very low in calories, so load your plate with a colorful variety to help you feel full. A balance of lean protein, healthy carbs and fats will help keep you feeling satisfied, your energy up and cravings down. Avoiding cravings is essential for success. Make sure you hydrate! As a general rule you should aim to drink at least one ounce of water for every two pounds of body weight plus eight ounces for every 20-30 minutes of exercise.

 

WHY HYDRATE?

  • Improve metabolic functions
  • Increase the % of fat used for energy
  • Help prevent overeating

(when you think you’re hungry, you may actually just be thirsty).

Try drinking 8 ounces of water 15-20 minutes before each meal and another 8 ounces with your meal. It will help you feel full sooner.

Need help staying on track? Call, email or use this calendar link to setup your complementary Discovery Call and find out exactly how Wellness Coaching and Personal Training can help you live your healthiest life possible.

Barbara@ProjectFitnessCoaching.com
www.ProjectFitnessCoaching.com
Ph: 919.590.0405
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Join the free women’s wellness group: Project Fitness – The Journey